Introduction
Mark twain once said “the clothes make the man”, and while the great writer certainly had a point, I would take the more controversial view of “the man makes the clothes”. But hang on? Does this mean I can dress like a tramp and make it work for me? Alas, no, being stylish is the ultimate paradox, you must take great care to put yourself together and then completely forget you’re wearing clothes at all – it’s a hard line to tread and many a man gets it wrong. The majority of this article will look into the attitude behind the clothes; what is cool, men who got it right, clothes that capture the attitude and why the rewards a life of effortless cool brings is achievable for every man to grasp if he wants, regardless of whether he lives in Paris or Scunthorpe.
The essence of “cool” is an elusive thing. Nobody quite knows what it is, it has no single agreed upon definition, and yet it is phenomena that transcends both generations and cultures – it is timeless. People certainly know it when they see it, as we’ve all seen someone in a bar, at work or even on the bus that just seemed to ooze this thing we call cool from every pore. That being said, this intrepid article writer is going to attempt to define “cool”, at least in relation to fashion; I think cool is a supreme self assurance, not arrogance or cockiness, but an inner confidence, one that makes you firmly believe what you’re wearing looks good, that you look good, so good in fact that you don’t even need to acknowledge you look good, it’s just the way it is. Effortless.
The men who got it right
Below are some examples of men I personally think achieved this elusive attitude, it is no way comprehensive and there are numerous others. Clockwise from top left: Mr. James Dean, Mr. Frank Sinatra, Mr. Steve McQueen, Mr. Paul Newman, Mr. Marlon Brando and Mr. Johnny Depp. Who would your choices be past or present? Let us know in the comments below:
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The essentials:
Back to Mark Twain again, while the man and the attitude behind the clothes are important, the man better have some stylish clothes otherwise he is only half the style icon he wishes to be. Whilst there is no strict look that encapsulates the attitude; there are a few guidance rules and essential products.
Guidelines:
- Whatever you wear, wear it with confidence and air of nonchalance.
- Dress on trend, but use individual pieces that show that you’re not just blindly following crowd, the crowd in fact should follow you.
- Invest in timeless pieces, “Fashions fade, style is eternal” – Yves Saint Laurent.
- Dress up your casual wear, and dress down your formal wear depending on the situation, but always maintain an air of control.
- Cut is king, if the clothes don’t fit, you’ll never achieve the attitude.
- Little elegant touches set off an outfit, they refine you.
A few essential items:
- A suit - the style of the suit; be it three piece, double breasted or just standard two button is up to you, but the colour should be simple and not “loud” – understated yet elegant.
- Leather jacket - Timeless, the ultimate symbol of rebel cool, think James Dean in rebel without a cause or even John Travolta in Grease.
- Hats - A good hat can smarten up any outfit. The trilby is timeless, and the bowler hat is set to make waves in 2011, but for those for who hats are daunting, start small with a drivers cap. Wear a hat with confidence and it will become a trademark part of your personal style.
- Jeans - everyone owns jeans and you can’t go wrong with a pair of raw or dark indigo denim. I’d stay away from boot cut, but that’s just a personal preference, as I think the skinny, slim and carrot styles create a more defined, Parisian look, and we all know the French are kings of cool.
- But why follow the crowd? Chinos have been big for the last couple of seasons, and continue to be; they are comfortable, look fantastic, come in all the styles that jeans do, work in summer and winter – a very versatile item.
- The pocket square - sets off any suit off in an elegant yet relaxed fashion.
- Boots - timeless and versatile footwear which gives that bit extra that shoes don’t. Invest in military style or desert boots if you want to stay on trend, but don’t shy away from more traditional styles such as Chelsea boots or brogue boots when upgrading your shoes.
Conclusion
So there you have it, a quick guide to cool. Of course there are no absolutes and it comes down to personal preference, but I believe that it’s an achievable state of mind and style for everyone. It takes a lot of guts, a lot of smarts and a hell of a lot of charisma, but get the clothes right, then the attitude will follow. Once the attitude is there, then all the clothes you wear are set off in what can only be described as a stylish symphony of ultimate cool.
“Cool is a knowledge, a way of life.” - Lewis MacAdams
The Reader’s Opinion
So what do you think about the subject? Let us know your view in the comments below:
- What is your definition of cool? Is it possible to define it?
- Who epitomises cool in your opinion? Celebrity or otherwise.
- How can you achieve and be classed as a “cool” male?
- Do the clothes make the man or the other way around?
- What essential items do you think you need to have in your wardrobe in order to hit the attitude?
- Can you learn/teach cool or is it innate?
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pete doherty
Cool is effortlessness. If you look too contrived, your coolness goes out of the window.
Gustaf Noren of Mando Diao.
Coolest man alive.
What always strikes me as cool is to see someone who looks so well put together that you might assume that they were arrogant and high-maintenance to find that they are down to earth, sincere, humble, engaging, graceful, curious and intelligently self deprecating. In short a true gentleman. That to me is when I’m struck with a sense of someone being ‘cool’. I think the whole rebel thing only works in terms of a playful and somewhat ironic aesthetic. Keep up disaffected behaviour and you end up bitter and resentful. A parody of yourself who stirs up little more than pity. Not the most obvious or indeed popular example but Stephen Fry presenting QI always seems to ooze cool.
brogues are a must.
Cool happens when someone has the ability to make you want to be them,makes you look at yourself and say,why can’t I have that. The coolest person in the entire world is Johnny Depp. I believe clothes are just a representation of what’s on the inside,so the man makes the clothes. You can be taught,to be cool,but it may or may not last. PERFECT ARTCICLE!!
french kings of cool? yeh they’ve got it going on but i think you should come down south, if you want real attitude
Can you learn/teach cool or is it innate?
Of course it is innate, 2% of the male population have the “Cool” gene
and Hell yeah! you can learn, its all about good vibe and high percieved value, body language, vocal tonality, sense of humor and attitude. search for evolutionay psicology of David Buss, and youll see how “cool” its already defined very well. :D
loved the post anyways
“it’s just the way it is. Effortless. ”
(even though its a fake effortless, complicated, I know)
Cool is one word that describes so many things: the ability to capture attention and gain respect through one’s actions, without intending to or caring. It’s about being what you love, and loving what you are, to a level of self-confidence that stays away from arrogance and narcissism. it’s the fearless stength to be the ultimate you without pushing aside your friends or strangers to get there. It’s effortless, it’s egoless, and it’s awesome :)
a balanced lack of self doubt. it’s a fine line that seperates cool from ‘the situation’. Also smoking seems to help, try and think of someone famous who is cool and you’ll find they enjoy a cig or a cigar
You have encapsulated what is cool in this article. I also love the pictures.
In my humble opinion , actor Justin Theroux (see Mulholland Drive or America Psycho) is cool personified. Love his aggressively nerdy glasses! (I’ve actually got a pair!)
Cool is wearing clothes effortlessly, as if you can’t be bothered. A good face always works too, which is where some guys look cool simply because their face looks great. Even though they have no coolness about them.
what is the name of the james dean photo above, it is amazing, where can i find a poster of it…..thank you
Mmmm’ thought provoking article, you defined ‘cool’ really well.Self confidence I think is the key to looking ‘cool’, being comfortable in your own skin. Enjoyed your article!
Being cool is being comfortable and relaxed as who you are… simple as that… its not the clothes you wear, but how you wear the clothes. Stay cool fellas.
I don’t think you have to look past Paul Newman for the real “king of cool”. The man was immensely talented and stylish, but at the same time humble, faithful & generous. I think it is these positives character traits that make him such an icon. Classic clothes and annoyingly good looks, worn with confidence also help. Thinking about it, I hate him- the swine!
The darker characters have their place too of course- McQueen and Dean being the prime examples. Their dangerous edge is what makes them so appealling and you simply can not buy that. It takes more than a sharp haircut and a motorbike to be cool, you have to back it up by embracing the devil within. Once again, being incredibly good looking and having impecable taste is always a bonus
For a good summary of what is cool read Gene Scarlatti’s book ‘Cool’ published by Hutchinson in 1982. It is as relevent now as then. A point to remember. We can’t all be J Depp, M Brando et al. If you are fashionably bold, confident then you will appear cool, maybe not to everybond but you will appear cool to someone.
to each his own of defining “what is cool”. Relaxed and unpretentious does it for James Dean and Johnny Depp. There’s something “cool” on how they get to be so mismatched at times but at the end you would think otherewise and say …..NOW THEY’RE THE COOLEST
The whole article is an oxymoron, as anyone who follows this advice in an attempt to be cool might look cool on the surface but clearly isn’t cool.
david beckham..!!!!!!!