Sadly, I think the seamstress is right. Taking up a sleeve from the bottom with a working cuff is nigh on impossible and taking from the top of the sleeve will affect how the sleeve hangs from the shoulder and would likely ruin the shape.
You could always try another tailor for a second opinion, but unless it feels unwearable as is, you might just have to live with it.
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