The Right Cut + The Right Products = Perfect Hair
Just For The Boys
If there’s one question that comes up time and time again from my male clients it is this: Why do us guys have hair products especially designed for us? Whilst most hair products are not gender specific, the answer I would love to give is simply; that we are very special people. Of course this isn’t the real reason – well not quite – but there are many reasons why.
Until recently most mass market male hair products included a anti dandruff/deep cleansing shampoo an oily wax or a sticky gel which had the aroma of floor cleaning detergent. This was a bit of a generalisation don’t you think; assuming that we all have a scalp disorder or have to use the shampoo equivalent of paint stripper to remove a BP size oil slick left by the wax deposited on our hair 3 weeks ago… and we like our hair to smell like a used floor mop – okay rant over. Thankfully there have been huge improvements over the last few years by some very smart companies who have designed a range of products which take into consideration different hair types, condition and that we may like something that smells AND looks good.
Despite their current boom, there have been a few hero products within the male grooming market and Brylcreem is just one great example; it’s been around since the late 1920s, it was the first mass marketed male hair product designed for a specific hair trend and remained very popular until the 1960s, making a brief comeback in the 90s. Love it or hate it, it’s still a successful brand.
The Right Products
So, with an increasing choice out there, selecting the right products for your hair can be a bit hit and miss. However, once you get it right, from the shampoo you use to keep you hair looking great (and yes, using a conditioner really will make a noticeable difference), right the way through to the correct products and tools used to create and enhance your hair style, it makes ALL the difference to your overall look.
In this day and age, if you really care about your hair and want it to look the best it can possibly be, it is not enough to just pick a generic brand “made for everyone”. This may sound a bit daunting but never fear, today I will break down some of the major hair types men have, what common problems are associated with each, and give you some tips in order to help counter act them.
The Thick Of It
Thick or wavy hair can tend to feel dry and appear coarse, which can make life very difficult – especially if you want a flatter and more defined style. Using a moisture shampoo and conditioner is a good start as it will help your hair to become much more supple, as well as smoothing the surface of each hair, making it more reflective/shinier. This enhances the hairs healthier looking natural colour, and healthier hair always looks more youthful which will be a plus for some of the older men out there.
One tip is don’t use too much conditioner; for short to mid length hair roughly about the size of a ten pence piece maximum. This not only wasteful but will take longer to rinse and the residue left in the hair may make it appear dull. To use correctly, get rid of any excess water from your hair and rub the conditioner between the palms of your hands before applying to hair, comb it through, then rinse thoroughly, any residue left in the hair will leave it looking lank and dull.
Using a leave in conditioner is great for adding weight to very thick wavy hair, helping to make it flatter and less unruly. I would usually only recommend using it on thick wavy hair, whether it is long or short. Apply to towel dried freshly shampooed hair, either leave to dry naturally or gently dry with a hair dryer.
Feeling Fine
At the opposite end of the scale is finer hair which can be very difficult manage when trying to get texture or lift without looking like product overload. As with thick wavy hair, it is vital to use the correct shampoo and conditioner which will not only give it a healthier, shinier look, but will also strengthen it. If you use a specialist thickening shampoo then it should also thicken and help add volume to each strand, making it easier to style. Use the same method for applying conditioner above (as with thick wavy hair) – except use less – about the size of a penny, or slightly more for longer hair.
With styling products if you want your hair to hold a style or need some lift then its crucial to use a wet styling product, such as a volume spray/lotion, thickening cream or gel. If you want maximum lift and hold, say to achieve a quiff (see earlier article), then a styling gel is your best bet. To achieve slightly fuller thicker hair try a volume spray or thickening cream. These are all classed as wet styling products, meaning they are usually applied to wet hair and blow-dried.
Finish it
Finally, styling products are slightly more difficult to choose these days, especially with so much choice. So as a basic guide; on thick to medium texture hair, or to obtain definition on shorter textured styles (with or without lift), chose a matte paste or thick pomade as it will mean you have to use less product than if you use a wax, plus you will avoid the oil slick look. If you do want a more slicked down low side parting then a softer paste or modern wax will achieve this.
With finer hair textures try using a matte paste and avoid wax as this will tend to flatten your hair and make the hairs to stick or clump together. Not only will this look like your fine hair is over loaded with product, it will also reveal too much scalp and make your hair look even thinner. Apply all pastes and pomades (finishing products) by rubbing a small amount between the palms of hands and fingers then wipe over all the hair gradually, pushing through the hair with your fingers. ALWAYS use a little to begin with and add more if needed.
The Iron Man
If you blow-dry your hair, for a flatter and straighter look try using a smoothing/straightening product and consider using straightening irons for a perfect finish. On the rare occasions that I use irons on male clients, I would usually suggest applying a wet styling product afterwards to take the edge off that “just straightened” look.
Put some of the wet styling product – even if it’s a spray on product I would normally remove the cap and tip about teaspoon (roughly 5ml, slightly less if you use a gel) into the palms of the hands – rub together and run through hair in the same way as paste or finishing product.
Put hair into place and allow a minute or two to dry, then apply a paste or preferred styling product after – this on most hair types gives it an undone look.
Afro Texture
Current trends for afro hair still sees the dominance of tight close hair styles and slightly grown out shapes. The difference with shorter styles is the shape and length; wearing the top longer than the sides and back; the top having a taller shape with soft rounded edges, which is a retake on the 50s higher tops and 80s flat top but much softer and less sculpted. The great thing about this look is that it can work with a range of textures, tight to loose and can be worn with most face shapes. The best owner of this look to date is Usher Raymond (see look book below).
Once again it’s really important to use the right shampoo and to take the time to condition your hair, as this will make styling much easier. A soft defining product to give the hair a slight sheen to matt finish will keep this look controlled and on trend, but not overloaded. If you want to go for a bit more length, there are some styles being worn roughly 2-3 inches long all over giving the hair a grown out look which can be styled differently to suit either a looser curl or a relaxed or natural curl.
The Right Products
From the people I have spoken to they have all stressed that manageability is by the biggest issue with afro hair, so I’ve recommended what are said to be the top draw afro hair products around. MIZANI combines technology with fine ingredients to produce a unique product range, established in 1991 by Soft Sheen and one of the most respected names in professional haircare… Redken.
The thing that strikes me about MIZANI is it is a simple product to use and most of their individual product range claim to cover a wide range of hair types – taking away the risk factor when making a selection.
Look Book

Recommended Products
- Redken For Men Densify Shampoo 300ml

- Redken For Men Clean Spice 2-in-1 Conditioning Shampoo 300ml

- Tigi Love Peace & The Planet – Love Peace & The Planet

- Label.m Matt Paste 120ml

- Black & White Creative Paste 100g

- Tigi Bed Head Charge Up Thickening Conditioner 200ml

Afro Hair Product Recommendations
So here we have some products which are suited to afro hair. Remember you need to look for products which will help you maintain your style and keep the hair in great condition, as well as softer styling products which will give great hold and a matte to slight shine finish. If anyone has any personal recommendations then please just drop them in the comments below.
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It’s about time the writters offered some suggestion for those with afro hair.
Long overdue if you ask me.
Personally i’m not too fussed about my shampoo/conditioner. But I do recommend Dax super light pomade for short afro hair.
Another hair produt I find brilliant for fine hair like mine is MOP Moulding Cream.
Light, adds texture and washes out really easily.
i would like to ask what should i do with my super dry and damaged hair??
thanks a lot
Hi Jazzovani
I’m guessing that your hair is thick and possibly slightly wavy, which would mean that your hair is naturally dehydrated because of its texture. Also, there are external causes such as sun, wind, and salt water – so if you are a surfer living in California then stop complaining it seems like a fair sacrifice to me (just kidding). Try using a leave in conditioner – TIGI Bed Head for Men Leave-In Conditioner is a spray on which is good on thick or medium texture hair and treats scalp dryness too, for very dry and thicker wavy hair.
KMS California Moist repair Leave-In Conditioner is a great product and one that I use especially in the summer. As I always express, use a good shampoo and conditioner in order to help maintain your cut and style. Philip Kingsley Moisture Balancing Shampoo is one of the best; a bit on the pricey side but worth it. JASON Natural Sea Kelp Moisturizing Shampoo I also use from time to time and its great value roughly £6 UK or $4 STATE SIDE. With leave in conditioner it’s still a good idea to use a conventional conditioner if your hair is very dry and damaged.
Hope this helps, let me know.
Robert
I’ve just recently started using Redken working wax maneuver and i’ve found it to be a very good match for my hair. I have exceedingly thick shortish hair which I push into a rough quiff (generally I try my best then leave it to do what it wants.) I’m not that fussed about have a solid hold so it works really well, it works in a similar way to a lot of waxes but it feels much thinner and lighter and I still get medium hold.
Definately recommend it.
I have thin, mid length hair that gets quite wiry and dry at the sides but on top it seems to lay flatter with thicker texture (due to a lot of hair rather than actual thickness). I find that products that work for the top leave the sides dryer and products that calm the sides leave the top looking too thick and moist(on the edge of greasy). What would you suggest as a shampoo and styling product as I’ve tried all sorts?
Completely agree with the first poster, there does need to be more about afro hair please! Or mixed race hair! My number one tip for those with dry or afro hair is to never use anything where “alcohol” is high up on the ingredients list, because it will dry your hair straight out!
Other than that, a great article :)
I can’t believe in ANY article written on this site regarding hair ‘FISH’ product isn’t mentioned. It’s the perfect inbetween styler wax/paste for all lengths (especially finer hair) By far more superior than even the high end ones Fashionbeans always end up mentioning*coughADVERTISINGcough. By the way stop going on about afro hair! They just featured it didn’t they & will no doubt continue to make effort to include in more features in the future.
Hi Flat-Top,
Thanks for your comments about fish products. We don’t just use expensive products because of advertising, I actually include the products Robert recommends personally as he has a wealth of experience within men’s hairdressing and the trade as a whole. He doesn’t work for (or is influenced by) any of the companies we use or feature – I see which products he recommends that week and then go and find them around the web at the best prices I can. It is the same with our fashion articles – we feature Burton right the way through to Mr.Porter so there is variety for all budgets.
What you must remember is that just because a product works well for you, doesn’t mean it will for everyone else – it is the same as with clothes. We are here to guide you the best we can, but after that it is about personal experimentation to find what works for you (and your hair in this case). Now you have given a cheaper recommendation, maybe some of our readers will go out and try that brand as well.
RE. afro hair – yes they are long overdue but as flat-top mentions, we are definitely going to try and include tips more regularly. Robert has mentioned quite a few times now that he is not a specialist in the subject so has been asking his friends that do specialise for their advice. I am not going to just publish any old article with afro hair tips to quiet the majority unless I can guarantee that they are valid and endorsed by someone that knows what they are talking about.
In the meantime if any of you know a stylist for afro-hair, why not put them in touch with us (link at top of site) so we can collaborate with them to produce some excellent articles for you all.
I have very fine hair but lots of it, so it always appears thick and luxurious. I use a matt paste by bed head TIGI. It’s great stuff and I always get compliments on how great my hair is to cut from stylists at my preferred spa salon.
Thanks a lot Robert another great article. I’ve posted before about having difficulties getting my fine hair to hold in a style. Much to the annoyance of my wife I’ve tried quite a few products in the past couple of months (American Crew Fiber, Bed Head manipulator, Hairbond molder) and whilst all good at styling the hair none of them ever seem to hold it in position for very long.
But the tip about using wet styling products on damp hair has been a revelation! My hair is over 2 inches long at the front and I’m now styling with damp hair and KMS Hairplay molder and its holding up no problem! I’m not even using a brush or hairdryer!
I’m probably a bit of a novice for previously styling dry hair but just wanted to say thank again for the tip!
Hi Mansy
Its great to read that you have had some success with your hair, it sometimes can be the most simple things that work.
Good luck. Robert.B
My hair is wavy but as it gets longer seems to curl a little more. Its dark and very very thick, almost impossible to do anything with. Are there any thinning products out there? I straightened it once but could only do the front bit as the rest isnt long enough. I keep it short because its manageable then but i would ideally like straight thin hair because i want the indie cut…any advice???? thanks